![]() ![]() I wanted to keep bean and he can be involved or not as much as he wants. I told him straight up I don’t expect anything from him, but he should know as it was his child too. I’m on birth control due to PCOS and yes, BC fails too. I told him after dessert, and yes, he was stunned. I declined alcohol, which had his eyebrow raising but I don’t drink if I’m working the next day and he knows this. My mother has been over the moon about the new grandbaby and has made plans to retire and help me should I find myself a single mother.Īnyway, a couple of days after I posted, I invited Larry for dinner. I do have a good, stable job and with the money I saved up (even if half of it goes to ex after the divorce), bean and I will be set for a while. Issues on both sides made it clear we can’t have any naturally so we saved up for a few rounds of IVF before discussing adopting. To be clear, my ex and I wanted children and started to try when I hit 30. We’re both still reeling after our partners cheated on us with each otherįirst off, thank you so much for the advice and replies, I read the all, even the ones that were denouncing me for baby trapping Larry. I want to keep the baby as I have always wanted to be a mother but I don’t want to lose him if I do. So here I am, scared and anxious to tell Larry. I thought it had something to do with my new medication so I set up an appointment with my GP. Three weeks ago, I started to feel dizzy and nauseous at work. He came around often again, but never staying the night. We both decided to forget it happened and carry on. He blamed himself and I told him it was both our mistake. He came around one night with dinner and flowers, asking for forgiveness that it happened. We didn’t talk or text for a couple of weeks. I was very sad and locked myself away again, hating myself for letting it get so far. We couldn’t look at each other the next morning and he moved back to his flat. I don’t know who made the first move, but it happened and we slept together that night. I still have my wedding rings in my drawer. He can’t force himself to get rid of it and I understood. He said he forgot about it, until he got the email saying it was dispatched a month ago. It’s a custom design and took a couple of months to be completed. He showed me a necklace he had bought for Kate for their anniversary. We had a very platonic relationship, and even though I’m older, he felt like my big brother even before this mess.Īnyway, valentine’s comes around and we decided to get pissed and commiserate. He’s planning on selling it and is having it surveyed. Since I live close to work and he is working remotely, he basically moved in the guest bedroom, going to his flat only for a few things and watering the plants. Larry and I clung to each other a bit, as the other knew what the other felt and vice versa. I filed for divorce before ex could and that is now underway. I was inconsolable, catatonic at most times, and only therapy and my family’s support got me through. Larry kicked Kate out, I kicked my ex out, and they both got somewhere to live together. But you know what happens next: Kate and my ex announced during what was a nice dinner at their house that they had fallen in love and wanted to divorce us. Larry and I were relieved that they were getting along and keeping each other from being lonely. My ex and Kate started to hang out when we couldn’t be there: dinners, taking the dogs out for walks, shows, etc. Recently, Larry and I started to work jobs that require us to be away from home on evenings. My ex-husband (36M) and I (38F) were friends with another couple, Larry (fake name, 36M) and Kate (fake name, 36F). Okay, this is a doozy so please bear with me, I’m trying to make sense of it myself. We’re both still reeling after our partners cheated on us with each other. I am not the OP! This is a repost from r/relationshipadvice. ![]()
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